My husband and I launched a new hobby last year: sailing. If anyone reading this article knows about sailing, they know that the lifestyle is replete with challenges. Our most recent (and current) challenge has been the breakdown of our boat’s motor, critical to getting in and out of the harbor. It recently occurred to me that the mystery of how to repair the sailboat motor might resonate with job seekers, and thus also my esteemed career strategy colleagues, as you manage the fears, anxieties and frustrations of your job seeker clients.
Job Search Often Requires Hours of Mind-stumping Retooling
Often, prospective resume and job search clients approach me in an aggravated mode, having spent days, weeks or months in what feels like wheel-spinning motion, feeling their job-search strategy is broken. My husband and I have been battling the broken-motor problem since the end of last sailing season, but most heartily since March of this year, when we were able to de-winterize the boat and begin retooling various parts: carburetor, distributor, fuel tank, etc. Each time my husband retooled a part (often, after hours of back-aching work spent stooped over the engine), he looked at me hopefully, turned the key and kerplunk, it didn’t fix the problem.
As with fixing a persnickety engine, job search often requires hours of mind-stumping retooling only to find, hours or days into the execution, that the job search strategy still won’t turn over a new job interview or job or at the least, it won’t stimulate an effective job lead. Instead, it feels to the job seeker he is investing time and resources into a black hole.
Modeling my job seeker clients, my husband and I have tapped various professional resources to try to get our boat engine running again. As when career bumps detract from once thriving careers, our boat engine’s demise stalled our sailing life, all at once making us feel stranded on our dock. So we called upon service experts specializing in just the type of motor we have (Atomic 4, fuel engine), paid for new parts and advice, tapped our local marina’s service department aspiring for an appointment with a master mechanic (is a waiting-in-line issue during this busy boating season; plus, we have a specialized engine versus the more-common motorboats that Midwest marina mechanics tend to prefer working on). Still, after all this, the engine is fettered with what seems to be a systemic mechanical issue.
We feel we have thrown money and time upon more money and time only to find the problem to be amorphous and unending. Our patience wears thin.
This process has further upped my empathy for job search clients intent upon navigating the winds of a stormy job-search climate, where effectively communicating their value proposition, ferreting out their unique personal brand, planning the perfect networking strategy, appropriately and impactfully networking … and so forth unceasingly fill their job-search prep and execution lifestyle, often with what appears to be little positive result.
What I Tell My Job Search Clients to Quell Frustration: Reason to Hope
As a result of my motor-boat problem, some solutions and tips that I have gleaned for my job-search clients and prospects, follow:
Originally published in Career Alliance Connection, Career Management Alliance’s member newsletter.
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Good advice! I’ve talked to many a job-seeker who needs to “retool the engine” to get back into the water and search unchartered territory for the perfect destination. My similar analogy to this is riding a bike:
http://jefflipschultz.wordpress.com/2009/03/25/stay-upbeat-during-the-downbeat/
Thanks for sharing with us, Jacqui!
Hi Jacqui,
From one die-hard optimist and water-lover to another, I loved this post.
Your advice is right on, as you have to look at the job search as something to navigate, fall down, get back up, try again, fall down again and finally find the right “wind” (like my sailing word?) or JOB.
Great post
Erin
Jeff,
Thank you for relating to the retooled engine analogy of job searching. Your bike-riding analogy and blog is ‘spot-on’ – is almost like you channeled your creative processes to me when I wrote my sailboat parallel. I especially like the part about “if it (opportunity) feels right, pursue it with fervor.”
Erin,
I knew you’d ‘get it’ — optimism is hard work, but you make it look easy. And yes, I love your use of sailing terminology – you go girl! Your fine blog also offers job seekers great tips and encouragement at http://exclusive-executive-resumes.com/executive-resumes/
~Jacqui
Jacqui, this is really usable advice and sorely needed by today’s frustrated, disheartened, displaced jobseekers. Reframing is such a huge help, and you’ve shown so well how to do it. Thanks, I’ll be passing this on to my clients.
~ Deb
Great post. Job search has become so specialized and geotargeted. You must really spend the time to seek out quality sites. If you find a useful site check back often as they generally get updated frequently.
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