“The ache for home lives in all of us, the safe place where we can go as we are and not be questioned.” ~Maya Angelou
Robert’s and my soul-enriching spring trip to Kansas City, MO, to visit my folks commenced this past week. Not only did we engage in luxurious, drawn-out conversations that revived old memories, but we also updated our emotional and intellectual data banks with current happenings, hopes and dreams. Here is a picture of my dad and mom: Merle and Ann Barrett. My dad is 80, and my mom is 73.
Grace’s Gardens
Within those discussions, we unearthed insights about my dad’s leadership role at Grace Episcopal Church’s Community Gardens (Grace’s Gardens). Dad was pivotal in the early, 2009 stages of planning the gardens. As well, he currently manages and directs the operations, with the co-direction, support and collaboration of Mother Susan and integral others in the church community.
Church members of all ages plant crops that are later harvested and donated to Harvesters, Kansas City Community Kitchen and City Union Mission. In the summer of 2010, the Garden thrived, providing more than 1,500 pounds of green beans, egg plant, tomatoes, okra, squash and green peppers. Two thousand eleven and 2012 harvests continued to provide an abundance of food for those with otherwise limited access to fresh vegetables.
This year, the planning and hands-on work is well underway. When my parents took me to the garden this past week, I saw newly tilled soil covered with protective hay, the results of Dad and his team’s focused efforts. The scene was enlivening and inspiriting! According to Dad, the first planting will occur in May. He is hopeful for a more fruitful season fed by greater amounts of rainfall this year, as last year’s drought was a bit tough on the harvest.
Below is a photo of the cross-shaped garden that Dad not only tends, but is highly involved in architecting, planning, watering, fertilizing and naturally preserving through an organic approach. Of course, this picture was taken pre-planting! I only wish I had done a better job of capturing the entire ‘cross’ in the photo.
In addition to the large cross garden, the feeding ministry expanded to include additional gardens for 21 families. Spearheaded by Dad, the team tilled the land for this expansion. While 10% of the fruits and vegetables grown in individual family gardens goes to feed hungry people in need, the remaining 90% of food is enjoyed by the families who care for their gardens. A snapshot of those ‘family garden plots’ follows:
Moreover, the urban farm journey has further expanded to include a grape arbor. Grace Church’s goal is to use the grapes to produce their own Communion wine! A photo of Dad and me at the arbor follows. I am so proud of his work and guidance in creating this robust, diverse garden community.
To further punctuate the in-depth, ongoing and organic project, is the notebook full of research Dad has collected and studied. Throughout the past 3.5+ years, he’s been visiting the library, snipping newspaper articles and hand-writing notes to equip him and his team with the right details to produce a healthy garden result. As well, he writes out crop planting strategies and layouts and tracks rain and watering, chronologically. Here is a single photo (of dozens) from his notebook:
Rag Dolls 2 Love
While my dad’s initiative in this community project is impressive, equally impressive is my mom’s involvement with the Rag Dolls 2 Love project. Twice-monthly, the women of Grace Episcopal Church commune to design, sew and stuff adorable rag dolls, aka, “Dollies” for children of need and trouble. Recipients of these colorful, sweet and soft dolls are children who live in countries ravaged by war, hospitalized children, children infected with HIV/AIDS, children affected by hurricanes and tornadoes, homeless children, hungry children, and abused and abandoned children.
Here is a picture of my mom with one of her ‘dollies’ in progress.
Mom and her friends hand-make more than 200 dolls per year; those dolls have found homes in Romania, Africa, Haiti, and locally at Children’s Mercy Hospital, Liberty Hospital and Operation Breakthrough.
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The retirement journey for my parents has been chugging along for a number of years now. I find their recent-years’ encore community career invigorating and inspiring!
Whether you are on the brink of retirement from your full-time role and considering an encore career, are in career transition or you are simply looking to expand your contribution reach, consider the value of community volunteerism. Search the web using a few key words, and you’ll quickly come up with a plethora of opportunities in need of your time, service, energy and expertise. Inquire at your local church, United Way, Red Cross, Big Brothers Big Sisters, Meals on Wheels, Hospital, Soup Kitchen – you get the drift. Plenty of places need you!
Your value as a continual, lifelong contributor to the local community and world at large never fades, no matter your age. The impact you can make — especially on other people — is exponential. Whether you are tilling a garden, planting new crops, sewing stitches on a dolly that will later soothe and comfort a sick child, or some other task, small or large, you will (continue to) make a real difference in the world!
Dorlee says
What a beautiful post, Jacqui – I’m in awe of both your parents and the wonderful work that they are both doing on behalf of others in their community and the larger world.
They serve as wonderful role models for us all! Thank you for sharing with us some of the stories from your visit/their valuable encore careers 🙂
Jacqui Barrett-Poindexter (Career Trend) says
Thanks Dorlee! I hope my parents read your kind and awesome words. As well, your social work endeavors seem so focused on the community and world-at-large, so I am delighted to ‘read’ the connection between you and my inspiring parents!
Warmly,
Jacqui
Shena Macdonald says
Thank you, Jacqui
I have so enjoyed reading about your parent’s new careers. I am in a similar situation, 66 yrs old and retired. I volunteer with a Riding for the Disabled group and teach carriage driving. We can cater for adults, people who have weight issues and those in wheelchairs. We also have the senior class from the Special School come to learn to drive.
Our drivers and volunteers enjoy themselves every Thursday morning and we reckon it is as much a therapy for the volunteers as for the drivers (those with disabilities).
Cheers, Shena
Jacqui Barrett-Poindexter (Career Trend) says
Hello Shena,
I’m so pleased you enjoyed the post!
Thank you for sharing your story! Teaching carriage driving for the Riding for the Disabled group sounds both interesting and purposeful.
I like what you said about the therapy being a 2-way street, nurturing for both the volunteers and the drivers.
With appreciation,
Jacqui
Dawn Lennon says
Jacqui,
This post brought tears (the good kind) to my eyes. Your parents exude a grace and warmth that is also your essence. The acorn doesn’t fall too far from the tree.
As as country gal myself, the photos are truly inspiring and soul-soothing. We learn so much about ourselves through nature and through giving. Your parents are true examples of that.
I love your culminating message…one that we all need to remember: “Your value as a continual, lifelong contributor to the local community and world at large never fades, no matter your age.” The world needs whatever it is we have to give…we just need to look and respond.
Thanks for sharing this your special time and all that it meant.
Gratefully,
Dawn
Jacqui Barrett-Poindexter (Career Trend) says
Good morning, Dawn,
What a poignant comment; thank you so much.
I am grateful my parents’ essence shone through the words – as was my sincere goal.
I’m also so glad your affection for the ‘country’ life was further soothed through their story. Your remark about nature … giving resonates.
I love the idea of ‘looking and responding to what the world needs from us.’ So true!
Thank you, Dawn, for your usual, thoughtful addition to the conversation!
Jacqui
Susan says
Jacqui,
Thank you for this touching and relevant piece! It is very inspiring and of course makes me so proud. Our parents are very thoughtful and talented, yet have always put our “talents” in the spotlight. It is nice to see theirs highlighted as they so richly deserve.
Jacqui Barrett-Poindexter (Career Trend) says
Hi Susan,
What a nice surprise to receive your comment!
You make a good point about Mom and Dad always spotlighting ‘our’ talents. As proud daughters, I’m happy we can share in celebrating and honoring THEIR talents and thoughtfulness, that, as you said, ‘they so richly deserve.’
Thanks Susan!
Jacqui
A.j. Drew says
It sometimes confuses me that more Christians do not garden. My favorite part of the bible is Genesis. In the third day of creation, I see a tremendous induction to not only garden, but to do so with heirloom crops.
In fact,we initially named our farm Third Day Farm. We’ve since changed it as our farm transformed into a focus on hot peppers and shipping them threw the mail.
Jacqui Barrett-Poindexter, Master Resume Writer says
Good morning, A.J.
Thank you for your insights connecting the message in Genesis to gardening – specifically heirloom crops.
I love how you initially named your farm based on this Biblical reference!
As well, I have enjoyed taking a peek at your site: http://www.peppersbymail.com/, and encourage my readers to do so, as well!
Thank you so much for stopping be here – we welcome your meandering through and sharing your insights via our blog garden, any time 🙂
~Jacqui